I am in dilemma again....

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I am disappointed, not much but little bit.

Eight months ago, i was in the biggest dilemma of my life. I used to think about my prince charming. Who will he be, how would he be like, will he love me the most, will he be my dream guy or would he keep me happy........these questions made a big cobweb inside my mind.

But my mind came to peace on 22 Nov'2009, the day i got engaged. Finally, my ordeal had ended. I got married on 12 Dec'2009. Initial 2-3 months went busy in fulfilling essential after-wedding rituals and simultaneously, arranging our new home.

Five months passed, people started reminding me of my career, my job, upcoming responsibilities and of my future.

Yes, they were right. How could i take a backseat for forever? I have my own identity and independence, recollecting it again and realizing the value of time, i  plunged into the market of jobs & opportunities.

Now, my dilemma starts.
  • Sometimes, i think that 9 to 5 job is the best for me. A fixed no. of work hours and a regular pay. 
  • Sometimes, i think this 9 to 5 job is not for me. I am so creative and enterprising, why not to start something of my own?
  • Sometimes, i think i should go and join some related industry i am interested in and get some experience and exposure.
  • Sometimes, i think i should join some short-term professional course that could help me in long term.
"kya karoon?" Ohh.... why am i not able to think and decide?

If any one of my readers have any suggestions or advises, please write back to me. I'll ever be grateful to all of you for this.

Thanks a lot friends!!!

Comments

  1. RachanaJuly 7, 2010 at 9:02 PM

    Do what your heart says!

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  2. SnyJuly 9, 2010 at 11:03 AM

    if you are creative and enterprising you can look for some freelance work, ya start freelancing, you will get a lot of freedom there and in freelancing you do only what you love to do. :)

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  3. Sudha Agarwal RungtaJuly 9, 2010 at 11:22 AM

    Thanks Rachana!

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  4. Chandan KumarJuly 20, 2010 at 1:10 PM

    Di you can get lot of suggestions from multiple people. And most probably every suggestion will show a different path.

    I think u should do as Rachna Di said "Do what your heart says!"

    First of all you will have to select any one out of your 4 options (and haan this must be your decision). Only after that any one can help you in selecting sub-options.

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